The child is rude. What to do?
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Help me solve my moral problem. My son is 10 years old, he is quite an emotional boy, and very often in a conversation with me and his younger brother he breaks down to a cry, demands, even rude. I understand that this is most likely my mistakes in his upbringing, maybe I didn’t spend so much time with him in connection with the birth of my second child. But I can’t imagine how to fix this situation now.
I’m trying to explain that the younger ones cannot be offended, and it is wrong to be rude, and that this will badly affect his relations with his peers. When all the prayers and persuasion in my head are over, I begin to scream, be offended and demand. But, unfortunately, it seems to me that neither the “carrot” nor the “stick” works.
I have already despaired. Maybe someone faced such a problem? How to solve it? Maybe there are ways to smooth things out.
Thank you Alla Ivanovna»
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